As I was sitting, feeling lonely because Terry isn't here, I started to think about how much I miss having my old friends around. And then I thought about how great it is that I have made new friends. A stream of guilt ran through me because I felt for a moment like my old friends are being replaced by the new ones and that is NOT what I want to happen! Over the last few years my friends and I have moved away from each other and nobody has really taken the time or effort to keep in touch or visit. There have been times when I've felt neglected by them and I'm sure they've felt the same about me. After receiving the sweetest "you are a great friend" card from one of my best friends the other day, I realized that maybe instead of waiting for them to come to me, I should suck it up and go to them. Whether it be a physical visit, a phone call, or a card or letter, it is just as much my responsibility to keep our friendships strong as it is theirs. I'm also going to make an effort to let my new friends know how much I appreciate them and enjoy being around them! There is no competition between old friends and new and I am so grateful to have them all. To all of my friends, I love you!
-Life Lesson #4: If you are missing your friends, they are probably missing you. Make the first move.
-And Life Lesson #5: As you get older keeping your friends close only gets harder.
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